This book is
utterly interesting if you ever wondered a bit about the human psyche. Blink is about
first impressions and the fact that our subconscious works about 8 times faster
than our conscious mind processes information and gives a logical decision to
us. The book argues that we make snap decisions all the time and sometimes they
are valid and quite valuable and other times they are not.
In case of
extreme stressful situations our subconscious turns to pure instinct and we
become temporary autistic relying on basic prejudices or simple actions that
try to take us out of harm's way. On the other hand we use blink all the time
when we relate to other people by understanding their emotions and actions. I did refrain from adding
"words" due to the fact that some might say something but are
betrayed by their facial expressions, even tiny, milisecond-short muscle
spasms.
Blink,
apparently, can draw draw a line between life and death, but to use it at its
true value it requires lots of practice and vast experience in the field ( eg.
A doctor who has to make snap decisions in order to save someone's life, or a
policeman who can either pull the trigger on a scared suspect or simply to
approach him without the use of gratuitous violence).
This book was
an eye opener and it gave me some insights on how my own mind works. After
reading it I had been compelled to look at people's faces and to try to read
their minds without actually hearing what they were conversing about. It is a
gem for a layman in the field of psychology. I definitely recommend it.
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