Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Decoding Love by Andrew Trees

This is one of the most boring books I had ever read. I simply could not bring myself to finishing it. I guess he brings some viable arguments about sexual attraction and relationships. To be honest, if you've dated more than 10 people in your life and had sex with half of them, you can definitely skip this book. Simply because it doesn't bring anything more than just some facts you might or might not know, but you do them by instinct.

He tries to be funny at times, but it just doesn't hit the spot. The advice done like this " if you are a squeamish woman skip the next chapter" can rub people the wrong way. Maybe men like having sex more than women, but from this statement and calling us "sexual predators" it goes a very long way. I don't get offended easily and I guess he makes some valid points when he writes about the sociological experiments, but I wouldn't take any of his advice into consideration.

If you want to find out a bit about the differences between the 2 sexes, read the book. But keep in mind that it is mostly about heterosexual people (or I didn't get to the good part) and I haven't found anything that might suggest a path towards more interesting relationships like (swingers, gays, bisexuals, lesbians, transgender, fetishes, orgies, BDSM, role play etc.). 

This book just feels like watching old, boring, straight, softcore porn: missionary position, under the covers with lights dimmed, but there is no music in the background and they don't even show a boob or some ass. I wish at least he had some kink, or something interesting to hook me up with, or something to at least to make me relate to it and want to read it 'till the end.

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